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Hi. I would have loved to have taken your Family History with Imagination course but I missed it. Also U.K. times don’t match. I appreciate part of the course would be discussion and support but wonder if there is enough material to publish a stand-alone course? Or by email? It would be great for international folk and perhaps widen your scope.

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Hi Kate, thanks so much for your interest! The things that can come up for people around this work, as I teach it at least, wouldn't lend themselves too well to a self-paced course and are tricky even in a larger setting such as the Family History with Imagination class, which I enjoyed a lot but may not teach again in that way. I do have some other offerings coming up, and I'm still considering ways that I might build a larger community of people who are working with complex family histories. I'm also mindful of the emotional commitment involved in doing that in a way that provides a safe container and not just a triggering one. I'll definitely mention any future public offerings in my newsletter. Again, thanks for reaching out!

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Thank you for taking the time to give such a detailed response. It is clear why a self-paced course would be hard. I appreciate that you are mindful of possible triggers in family history - my daughter is adopted so I totally understand.

I am keen for people to start documenting their own history, so their descendants don’t have the same difficulties tracing and understanding their ancestors- which we will all one day become!

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That’s going to be an amazing class! I’m happy for everyone who’ll be taking it!

The Guerrero piece spoke to me in so many ways — you could replace the words “Puerto Rico” with “Ecuador” in almost every instance and have my own story. I,too, have a mother who can’t explain to me the mysterious lack of photos of my grandfather and great-aunt. And a mysterious relative who is stubbornly referred to as “the maid,” because she looked Black. And I also grew up exhorted to “improve the race,” a phrase that mystified me for decades of my life, and unaware of my own substantial genetic Black heritage, revealed by a DNA test.

I encourage anyone bewildered by Latin American issues around race to read this article because it really explains the complexity of it with very well deployed historical and personal references. I wish I’d read a piece like this when I was a child.

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I thought of you so much when I was reading that piece!!

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Mar 28, 2023·edited Mar 28, 2023Liked by Maud Newton

Thank you for remembering my stories! :)

I think it's important that all descendants of Spanish-colonized regions share our similar stories. For the longest time I thought it was particular to my family, and then later, began thinking it was particular to only Ecuador, before finally understanding that it was a post-colonial thing. I was 56 when I found the word "blanqueamiento," but I was only in kindergarten when my mother began saying, "you must improve the race," and only in my early 50s when I met someone else whose mother said the same thing. It was only then that I began to ask around and found more.

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"If Maud is this busy and accomplishing so many wonderful things, what in the heck are you doing with your days, Kris?" said no one to herself, probably. A great newsletter read that made me excited for you!

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Kris, you are such a peach! You are busy doing Kris things, which are important. I really do miss seeing you on Twitter. <3

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It's not a usage I can imagine for myself either!

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